Friday, September 17, 2010

Wadi degla

Last weekend we ventured over to a desert canyon where people like to hike, mountain bike and camp. Many thousands of years ago this place was an ocean, and a forest surrounded by volcanoes. Doesn't look much like that now.








I like this picture of me because I look like a deranged British archeologist. Below is my first headscarf encounter. Today we visited a mosque in old Islamic Cairo with dave's Arabic tutor. I was fine, even looking forward to wearing a headscarf until it actually came time to put it on. Then, something about having to wear it put me in a bad mood. Also I put together a little ensemble and came out to show Dave. He told me I was probably showing too much neck. Something about this really rubbed me the wrong way. I know he didn't make or agree with the rules, but just having him in his t-shirt casually tell me that I couldn't show so much neck made me want to kick him. It seemed like at least he should've said it apologetically. Luckily it only took me most of the afternoon to get over it. What's the deal with our feet, you ask? Two old men at the front of the mosque tie these booties on when you come in. Keeps the street dirt out. Emmett was very confused and kept asking shoes? all the way through the mosque. He didn't have to wear them though.






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Thursday, September 9, 2010

Disorganized Friday Morning Post


Here are some random photos from around the neighborhood. I really haven't made it very far out of maadi. Maadi is a relatively green and calm suburb. Downtown cairo, where Dave's office is, is much more urban and hectic. For now, the little bubble of Maddi feels adventurous enough.
I do the same things here that I did at home when not working: check out interesting classes for the boys, go to playdates, go to the pool. It is easy to get lost around here because there are very few street signs. So even setting out to a friend's house feels like a small adventure because we will probably get lost or at least go down a new street.

Above is one of my favorite buildings that I pass walking Thomas home from school. You can't really see but there is a grand open spiral stairway under the cupola. I don't know if it's a private house or apartments or what. This neighborhood is considered posh, but in the last few decades a number of the stately old villas have been torn down for more modern apartment buildings. Now it's a mix, beautiful grand old buildings next to grey concrete apartments. All of cairo is over-crowded, and some of those crowds are moving out to maadi, and even "new maadi" which is basically a horrible apartment complex and mall being carved out of the desert. That's where Judy lives. It is considered a good neighborhood-- middle class egyptians want to live there. But it looks just like a housing project in New York-- rows and rows of small balconies with laundry lines, and no green spaces anywhere ever. It's all surrounded by highway and construction. There must be children there but they must never leave the buildings. The only places that seem at all inviting are the mosques which have airy domes and paved courtyards. That alone would be a reason to love Allah here.


At a friend's house yesterday morning they warned that this guy in Florida who wants to burn korans might cause hostility and possibly violence here and to avoid mosques etc. this weekend. My friend's husband works for Coca-Cola and I guess they get a weekly security report or something. Not only is this weekend Sept. 11th, it is the end of Ramadan here. That means everyone has been fasting and staying up late for a month and is in a bad mood. It's really hot. And it's a national holiday long weekend to mark the end of the fast and celebrate the Prophet attaining enlightenment. So the news that a preacher in Florida wants to burn the holy book is not well-timed. Islam is very coordinated here-- there is no such thing as independent churches or small, out-there congregations. If an imam here were burning the bible, it would be something he had talked with higher-ups about and received at least tacit approval for. And if the state wanted to stop it, they would stop it. This is a police state-- the guy would be arrested. So it really does not translate here that this is not an official action on behalf of US Christians. Even if Obama and Petraeus denounce it-- the sense is if the US government was serious about stopping it, they would.


Here is a picture of a woman walking past an embassy wearing the niquab. I saw the black cloth billowing in the distance as this woman walked toward us and was honestly scared. It looks like those wraiths from Lord of the Rings that float menancingly around and if you get close have skulls for faces. She's probably a nice woman, but there is something hostile about this get-up. I'm sorry, that's just true. Many egyptians think this too. I have been told that the niquab has nothing to do with Islam or the Koran-- its a bedouin tradition to prevent sunburn and stop raiding tribes from stealing your wives. It is only in the last twenty- thirty years that it has been considered part of an Islamic identity. It is true that very few women in Cairo or the other arab states wore a veil a generation ago, and now most women do. But it is a class thing too- the working class embraces veiling and the elites do not. Most women wear just head scarves and abbayas, but I have seen more niquabs (full face veils) than I expected.




Here are Thomas and Emmett dancing to Oum Kathoum in the kitchen. She's a classic egyptian singer. And here we are playing at another friend's house-- Maxou. His mother is french and his dad is a Jewish American- the one working at coca cola. We are about to meet them to go to their fancy pool club that Coca Cola pays for. The thing is-- no one knows what time it is this morning. The Egyptian government announced this year that clocks would be set back for ramadan. But the end of ramadan is decided by looking at the moon somehow. Then there's an official holiday-- which could fall either on this past thursday or Sunday (which is a work day here). No one knew when it would be until whoever decides had looked at the moon Wednesday night. We had to check the school website the night before to find out if there would be school the next day. Many people travel for this holiday and it must have been such a pain in the neck to not know ahead of time whether the day off was Thursday or Sunday. (It is Sunday) But that is how central Islam is here-- no one questions this. So anyway, the time will go forward one hour with the official end of ramadan. We were told a while ago that would be thursday but now-- is it sunday? How does this holiday work anyway? What time is it in this country?

Once we figure that out, in two weeks, the clocks will fall back again for daylight savings.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Friends

We have a few! Here's Juan, who is in Thomas' class at CAC. Here they sit sweetly looking at books about a magic school bus that teaches science.

The night before, at an elementary school-wide iftar marking the end of the day's ramadan fast, they together decided to attack some older boys in fun and try to wrestle them to the ground. This was evidently Thomas' idea. On the way home I told him Juan's parents might worry if they thought Thomas was the kind of friend who would involve Juan in fights. But, trying to highlight the positive, I said if they saw Thomas and Juan discussing books and playing nicely, his parents would be happy. The next day when Juan came over, Thomas brought out a bunch of books. I found this unbelievably sweet.


Juan's parents work for a Latin American oil company. They are from Columbia, but Juan was born in Brazil and his younger brother, Felipe, who is Emmett's age, was born in Houston Texas. There are quite a few Latin American oil families at CAC-- at least judging by Thomas' class. Here's Felipe kicking a ball around.


They are lots of fun. We also entertained them in our new splash pool. The pump I got didn't work so Judy generously blew the whole thing up herself. This is a picture of her doing that. I tried a few times to tell her not to, but she insisted. I am not sure if this was an elaborate protocol, and really I was supposed to say no one more time and then she would have quit. But I didn't, so she blew the whole massive thing up and must have felt very faint. But we have very much enjoyed the sea monster and castle, and now have a working pump.



And here's some pictures of us at Maadi House. This is a private swim and tennis place for US government employees. It's very near our house. Most of the members are military or embassy personnel but faculty and staff from the American University can also join. The club itself kind of reminds me of a shaggier, smaller and dustier New Canaan Country Club. It sure is convenient to have here. And you can get beer there, which is not available anywhere else. We are trying to convince them to let us join as a special kind of cultural exception. We'll let you know how that turns out.


This night we were guests of some new friends, Eden and Nate. Nate is a philosophy professor at AUC. He and Eden and their son Jules also play in a band called the Fuuls, which is named after some kind of Egyptian breakfast food. A while back Eden and Nate were part of a band called enormous out of San Francisco and they opened for acts like Better than Ezra and maybe Bush(?). They toured for a few years playing really big places! The Fuuls were playing a concert at Maadi House that night. It was Thomas and Emmett's first rock concert. They only lasted through the opening act, but we all enjoyed it.







It is nice to have some new pals around town. And of course, one of the best new pals T and E have discovered is each other. It has been fun to see Thomas and Emmett find new ways to play with one another now that they've been thrown together in this new place. It sure is nice to have a brother--


Monday, August 30, 2010

Souk

On Saturday we took a family field trip to the big market, the Khan al-Khalili. I made the mistake of telling Thomas we might find magic carpets and genie lamps there.


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After some hard bargaining, we paid about double what we should have for an old brass lamp. We'll let you know how that turns out for us.

We went early in the day to avoid the heat, so many of the stalls weren't open. A lot of the merchandise was touristy brick a brack. But you could still imagine the old medieval markets with the camel stalls and fountained courtyards.




While trying to find a way out, we stumbled accidentally back in time.







We didn't know where we were but we decided to explore.



Later our research suggested that we'd visited the mausoleum and madrassa of Qalawun, a turkish slave from the 12th century who rose to become sultan. Evidently he was a fierce opponent of the crusaders. One guidebook said his mausoleum is second only to the taj mahal.

After that we went to Al Azhar park, a new green space in the center of Cairo. Ostensibly it was built to give average citizens a place to go-- like a central park. There is a small fee to cut down on crowds which was working very effectively the day we were there.

We stopped at a the central restaurant for lunch with a view.





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